Review of The Healing Journey: How a Poor Chinese Village Girl became an American Healer, by Sue Maisano, PhD
(New Milford, CT: Visionary Living, Inc., 2018). ISBN: 9781942157236
A spiritual practitioner and healer that I am serving as
book editor for emailed me a few days ago after attending a writer’s
conference. “I got a literary agent,” she said. “But he says that Eat, Pray, Love memoirs are out. No one
wants to hear your story.”
No one wants to hear
your story. What a horrible view of things. Plus, it’s a falsehood. No one wants to hear your story. Nothing
can be further from the truth.
Telling (and thereby owning) your story, to paraphrase Brené
Brown, is one of the bravest things that anyone can do. Stories are the stuff
of which we are made, as fundamental to our makeup as atoms and cells.
Governments, religions, multinational corporations, and the military are expert
storytellers. They have raised it to a high art (in collusion with the media),
making it more necessary than ever for those with alternative, holistic, and
healing views to tell their stories.
If anyone needs proof about the importance and value of
story, they should read Dr. Maisano’s book. Heavily weighted to memoir, with
self-help aspects reserved for the end, The
Healing Journey is exactly as advertised in both title and subtitle.
It follows the classic three-act structure of the Hero’s
Journey, as explicated by comparative mythologist Joseph Campbell decades ago,
with a clear cycle of Separation (leaving China), Initiation (graduate
schooling, marriage, children, and career paths), and Return (the part of the
journey when the Hero shares what she has learned with the “village”).
In a time of controversy over immigration and the path to
U.S. citizenship, Dr. Maisano tells an underdog’s tale of determination against
all odds. From her childhood in China to her defying the predictions of the
so-called experts and attending the best possible schools at each level of her
education, The Healing Journey
reminds us that the fundamentals we were taught (and perhaps I am showing my
age here)—honesty, integrity, self-discipline, respect for family, and
commitment to education—do bring to fruition our hopes and dreams.
The Separation of Maisano’s hero’s journey comes when she
decides to go to America for her graduate work in biology. Every high school
junior should read this section. She diligently ignores the advice of “friends”
urging her to aim lower, identifies the right program, reaches out to its lead
professor, and makes a case for herself. As with all her levels of schooling,
Maisano did not test well on her entrance exams, so it was her commitment to
her career path and persistence that got her into the school she wanted to
attend.
From there it is a blur of marriage, three children, and the
struggles that come with being a postdoctoral fellow with a small salary and
long hours. This is the major arc of her Initiation into adulthood.
Along the way, she amasses considerable knowledge and
experience that leads her toward a different path. This kind of
decision—especially for a married mother of three with a new mortgage and a
nervous husband—takes tremendous courage. It truly is the hero’s path. It is
following one’s Bliss—sat chit ananda
in Sanskrit. People often mistake the word Bliss to mean “easy” or “pleasantly
spiritual,” but it is rarely easy to change paths, to start over, to say that
all that came before was a Prologue to something new.
And what this new path leads to for Maisano, most
importantly, is her Return. She wanted to do more to help people—to guide them
in finding their passion and their path. To help them achieve their full
potential, despite all odds. This book is just one aspect of her work.
These are the strengths of The Healing Journey and, as you can see, they are many. If you are
struggling to find your path, or have found it and are unsure how to make the
commitment to change direction and fully follow it, this is an excellent book
for you.
People do want to—and
need to—hear your story. Dr. Maisano has proven this once again, and done
it in a very inspiring—and inspiriting—way.
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